tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post3652084521607638677..comments2023-07-23T10:25:38.598-04:00Comments on Jill Boyd's Place: Artful ArguingJillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04630288151385157311noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-38147923394753380102010-05-25T00:47:12.520-04:002010-05-25T00:47:12.520-04:00Mine is like yours in that if he is wrong he gener...Mine is like yours in that if he is wrong he generally apologizes before I can get my carefully worded words out. <br /><a href="http://www.adpress.in" rel="nofollow"> post free classifieds </a>kanishkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13651620533023202224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-87380449990563083932010-05-21T19:08:04.149-04:002010-05-21T19:08:04.149-04:00Its a wonder they ever get past those teen age yea...Its a wonder they ever get past those teen age years...never asking directions, not taking it easy when told, and don't even get me started on the not being able to load a dishwasher!!<br /><br />Men!! Ok they are pretty cuddly now and thenAmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10818307096793017985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-7936479456581407112010-05-21T08:41:36.887-04:002010-05-21T08:41:36.887-04:00haha! Indents! Crazy business that is.
I've l...haha! Indents! Crazy business that is.<br /><br />I've learned to ask questions rather than telling him why he is wrong. I will try and ask 4 or 5 questions to understand where he is coming from. <br /><br />Try sitting on your husband to stop him from pushing limits. I do that to my man sometimes.redeemed divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05508157584661486826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-69747730781221949112010-05-21T01:44:58.452-04:002010-05-21T01:44:58.452-04:00:) Glad to hear he is feeling better.:) Glad to hear he is feeling better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-8629608097593016862010-05-20T16:24:04.953-04:002010-05-20T16:24:04.953-04:00Interesting post, still I think there could have b...Interesting post, still I think there could have been another choice.... to chat about it before it gets to someone being right or wrong.<br /><br />At the same time I have to say there have been so many times when I've pointed something out to hubby, and his response is a 'yes dear' i.e he isn't listening...... then bingo, someone else mentions it, or he hears it on TV, and he tells me about it enthusiastically, and I have to say, yes, I've been telling you that for a while........smile.<br />Blessings - JanJanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18126729697434479230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-14206935925304236892010-05-20T11:34:13.693-04:002010-05-20T11:34:13.693-04:00If you have already made an appeal to him, then yo...If you have already made an appeal to him, then you have to let it go. If he's wrong, he's wrong. Wives cannot make their husbands do anything, and to continue to force an issue would not be submissive. He is accountable to God for his choices, and he will suffer consequences if a situation results in such. Unfortunately, wives may suffer some consequences along with him, not of our own choosing. It's okay to suffer for the sake of righteousness.<br /><br />1 Peter 2:19-23 "For this is commendable, if because of conscience toward God one endures grief, suffering wrongfully. For what credit is it if, when you are beaten for your faults, you take it patiently? But when you do good and suffer, if you take it patiently, this is commendable before God. For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps: "Who committed no sin, Nor was deceit found in His mouth"; who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously;"Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179941618101336000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-76584255330924158212010-05-20T09:57:26.885-04:002010-05-20T09:57:26.885-04:00I know the type (who pushes the limits I mean)...t...I know the type (who pushes the limits I mean)...that would totally be my hubs. And if yours is like mine and I try to 'encourage' him to follow doctors orders I'm pretty sure he hears the voice of a mother telling him what to do and he resists. I've learned that I have to say things at the right time, and the right time is rarely right in the moment of when whatever is happening is happening. Mine is like yours in that if he is wrong he generally apologizes before I can get my carefully worded words out. <br /><br />I think maybe yours will go to the dr and the dr will say hey, you're doing great or you haven't been listening to me and then you can think I told you so but not actually say it outloud : ) Seriously, sometimes they really don't hear you in the moment but upon reflection they recognize you love them and only say what you say because you worry and care for them. Sounds like you're on the home stretch...hang in there!Joycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16727615822243830106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493411878929853236.post-9214972482821130132010-05-20T09:31:38.001-04:002010-05-20T09:31:38.001-04:00Lol!! Actually, because my husband now takes couns...Lol!! Actually, because my husband now takes counseling classes and is studying to become a counselor, our arguments are more of disagreements where we discuss who is right and who is wrong...Letter C, actually, haha!Pennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16791257181990955117noreply@blogger.com